Luv N Ish: One Night Stand..Where Do You Stand?

Oh yeah, I am going there with this post. Why? Well, it ACTUALLY crossed my mind this weekend on my ski trip. Now, I won't go into too many details becase the rule of the trip was "What happens on the slopes, stays in the slopes" but I will touch on the "ONE NIGHT STAND" theory. I am a 25 yr old young lady who is pretty open about any "sexual talk". I mean why would you want to hide that? Anywho, I found myself in situations where I could have had a one night stand, or should I say "stands". However, I stoped myself. I WANTED to go there, but then I didn't, if that makes any sense. I think sometimes you have such a strong sexual attraction with people it JUST happens.

HOWEVER, I think I was thinking too much about it. I mean really a one night stand doesn't make you less of a person. You were just caught in the moment of passion and you expressed it with another human. Anyone would like to have a night of passion right? but at what cost? You may be thinking "hmmm, now what does THAT mean?". I mean at what cost of being talked about by other males who THINK they could have a one night stand with you. That would be a NEGATIVE! In my book, just because you may have had a one night stand with a man DOES NOT mean you will have another with just anyone who "hears" about your act. Hell, I have heard that some so called "ONE NIGHT STANDS" have turned into a nice relationship, so who knows. All I know is that I stoped myself, I thought "No Candice, you can't do that, it will mess with you afterwards" Or was that me just thinking too much into it? I don't know..can you tell me?

QUESTION: Have any of you had a "ONE NIGHT STAND"? What happened?

MUSIC for your PLEASURE: "One Night Stand" by J-Shin feat. Tasha Scott (of Xscape)