Not Happy? Why Stay?

So, I will admit. It's been a MINUTE since I have updated this site. Was it the lack of topics? NOPE! Lack of time? Perhaps..but I'm BACK! When I was actually planning on coming back I got really sick and I'm still not 100% now but I'm making it do what it has to do :o)

The topic, "NOT HAPPY? WHY STAY?" It's such a simple phrase, makes it seem easy right? WRONG! Something so simple is something that is actually very confusing. I had the honor to host a mini brunch for my Mommy's 50th birthday and I was surrounded by such beautiful, strong black women but when the discussion started I couldn't believe how many were NOT happy. Now, I'm not saying their not happy about everything, but each one had something going on in their life and it always dealt with the other sex. It amazes me how much women have to deal with these days. I'm 25 and I'm like "man, will a man ever come my way who is worthy, who will understand me, will know my worth AND his?" I still think it will happen, I'm NOT a bitter woman, I love "love", but the question is how much do you love "love" to not be happy?

I am ALWAYS the first one to be like "uhhhh, not dealing with it..BYE!" Now I know that ius not always the correct way, but life is too short for me NOT to be happy and because of one person? No thanks! Yes, I know when you get married things get complicated, but you should be happy. You should not think your the only one in the marriage. I mean if so, then "WHY DID GET YOU EVER GET MARRIED?". I don't know folks, help me out. I mean really, it's 2009. If you are not getting something you want out of the relationship then move on. BE HAPPY.

*MOVIE SUGGESTION*

Tyler Perry's "Why Did I Get Married?"